Stages of Grief

Jimi Hendrix's song "The Wind Cries Mary" is a depressing song about an object of affection named Mary. At first, I did not think the song was about a lover because the lyrics are not romantic or lustful. Rather, I assumed the song referred to Mary as a mother. The song possesses childish lyrics: "After all the After all the jacks are in their boxes, and the clowns have all gone to bed." I took this line literally, and imagined a young boy crying for his mother when she leaves to go to work or somewhere else. However, as the song progressed, I changed my mind about the meaning of the song and I jumped on the "Mary was a lover" bandwagon. Viewing Mary as a lover rather than a mother is especially evident in the line, "The traffic lights, they turn blue tomorrow and shine their emptiness down on my bed." The words "emptiness" and "bed" can only suggest sexual play.

After much thought, I've concluded that "The Wind Cries Mary" is a song about the stages of grief. The stages include: Denial, Depression, Anger and Acceptance. In the last line of the first stanza, the wind whispers Mary and whispering can be an action performed by those who don't want to hear the truth; in the second stanza the wind cries Mary, which links with depression; in the third stanza, the wind screams for Mary, which shows obvious anger; and in the last stanza, the wind cries for Mary again, accepting that she is gone. Maybe this seemingly depressing song is about acceptance and moving on, but still possessing feelings of eternal love for this "Mary" character.